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Marriage and Wedding

Been doing a countdown for my friend's D-day and we're 21 days away ^_^ While I was making their wedding gift tags I suddenly caught myself thinking about what life would be with that person God has been preparing for me.

More than feeling elated of the truth that it will be the one of nicest things in the world, I am feeling scared. Scared not of who that person will be, but of what kind of wife will I become. Will I be that Proverbs 31 woman? or will I end up setting my own standards according to this world's norm and my own biases?

I've read good books about stuff like this and I've collated all salient information which I believe will help me become a better person - a better wife. However, as I recalled them I sank overloaded with the what-to-dos and what-not-to-dos.

So right now, I just leave all the doing to God. He told me to rest my heart and my mind and just focus on what He has assigned me to do at this time.


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Madu and Ysai Prenup @ Somewhere South ♥♥♥
Madu and Ysai

I've witnessed these guys love story and admittedly played a little of the villain's part (BWAHAHAHA) No, I wasn't the third party (ayaw intawn) If I wasn't one of, I was probably the only one who was trying to convince Ysai that Madu is not the guy (boang gyud oks)

I guess I am in no position to spill the beans about these two, but there is one thing that I admire about them as I've seen them grow in deep love for each other (charbaks) I call it SPICE.

Yes, these two never fail to spice up their relationship. I don't know if I am right with what I am seeing (pag sure mo). I believe they don't put up a facade about their ka-echosan. I mean the sweetness and the little caress for each other are oh so natural.

They might post about some of their moments in facebook but their not the mainstream type of a couple who (para nako lang ha) keep on posting wa-koy-paki-stuff and unsay-labot-namo thing.

Hahahaha what am I talking? So yeah, that's them. Both are my friends but I'm closest to Ysai of course. I am just so excited!!! ^_^

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